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Exclusive Online Dating Frequently Asked Questions
Does including pictures to my profile help my chances of a match?|
Yes, people will want to know who you are and have an idea how you look. A picture with a profile will greatly increase your likely hood of getting a response. Profiles without pictures get viewed at a fraction of the rate that ones with photos do.|
Why do I have to answer all the questions on a profile?|
The more questions you answer the most likely you are going to get a close match to what you are looking for either through responses from members directly or via our system code getting you a match.|
What kind of pictures would give me the best responses?|
Several pictures of you is a good start. They should be of you relaxed in nice clothern, but not laying on the couch or bed. Do include a head shot and a full length photo. In addition you might want to have some of you in your favorite activities. Try and have a few pictures that display the unique person that you are.|
Should I include my real email address in my profile?|
You should get a free account at someplace that is not related to you in anyway like Yahoo or Hotmail. Do not use the email that your ISP gave you, or your email at work, or the email that you use for your business or the email associated with your website..|
Where is the best place to meet someone for the first date?|
Pick a nice public place that you are comfortable with. Make sure to tell someone where you are going and whom you are meeting and also a time range is a good idea. Another good idea is to arrange to call a friend at a specific time or two during date.|
Can I post a picture of me with other people?|
Only if the other people in the picture are very ugly and make you look very good. Really, you want the focus to be on you and not someone else in the picture. How will they know which person is you? Stick to pictures of just you for your profile. Later you can send pictures that include other people.|
What do I put in my first letter?|
If you are writing in response to their profile, then tell them where you found them and why you think that you and them would be a good match. If they agree, they will write you back. Don't forget to attache a recent photo or two.|
What are all those symbols in emails?|
Those symbols are called "Emoticons" and the are meant to be a shorthand way to express your feelings.

